SELECT 
  p.product_id, 
  ifnull(
    count(dp.post_id), 
    0
  ) as discussion_amount_posts 
FROM 
  tmall_discussion 
  INNER JOIN tmall_products as p ON (
    tmall_discussion.object_id = p.product_id
  ) 
  INNER JOIN tmall_discussion_posts as dp ON (
    tmall_discussion.thread_id = dp.thread_id 
    AND tmall_discussion.object_type = 'P'
  ) 
WHERE 
  dp.status = 'A' 
  and p.product_id in (
    70, 156, 175, 43, 76, 56, 57, 30, 246, 173, 
    67, 25, 154, 53, 52, 161, 165, 166
  ) 
GROUP BY 
  p.product_id

Query time 0.00787

JSON explain

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    "cost": 0.168529282,
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      "sort_key": "p.product_id",
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          {
            "table": {
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              "access_type": "ALL",
              "possible_keys": ["thread_id", "thread_id_2"],
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              "cost": 0.01785585,
              "filtered": 100,
              "attached_condition": "dp.`status` = 'A'"
            }
          },
          {
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              "access_type": "eq_ref",
              "possible_keys": ["PRIMARY", "object_id"],
              "key": "PRIMARY",
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              "used_key_parts": ["thread_id"],
              "ref": ["tmall.dp.thread_id"],
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              "cost": 0.0866561,
              "filtered": 100,
              "attached_condition": "tmall_discussion.object_type = 'P'"
            }
          },
          {
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              "access_type": "eq_ref",
              "possible_keys": ["PRIMARY"],
              "key": "PRIMARY",
              "key_length": "3",
              "used_key_parts": ["product_id"],
              "ref": ["tmall.tmall_discussion.object_id"],
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            }
          }
        ]
      }
    }
  }
}